Recently I have even been called out (in the wedding blog world) for advocating creativity and individuality when my own wedding was so "cookie-cutter." I know that making your wedding one-of-a-kind and unique is the trendy thing to do these days. However, J and my wedding was fairly traditional and conservative.  Thinking back to our wedding day and the months preceding the event, I can think of three explanations why. Our venue provided everything.We would've had to do additional work, and/or pay extra fees in order to incorporate elements that were unique to our personalities. We knew this was a trade-off when deciding on this venue; however, their food was to die for (people are still talking about how awesome the food was at...