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The Right to Live

My baby is now 1½ weeks away from being considered "viable" by the medical community. Once she hits that magical 24-weeks mark, she has a 50% chance of longtime survival outside my womb. And if anything were to happen to the pregnancy after this mark, a hospital will try its best to keep her alive. I can now feel her movements every day (and every night as she keeps me awake). She reacts to outside stimuli. She even performs extra flips and kicks when her daddy is around! My baby has never felt more alive to me, and I know that the feeling will only increase as the days go by. However, there has never been any doubt in my mind that my...

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Unconditional Love — Is “The Giving Tree” a Depressing Book?

When I was little, I asked my mother what love is. "Love is something you give away. But unlike other things, the more you give the more you receive in return. If you give one, you get two. If you give two, you get four, and so on. But you shouldn't give love just for the sake of getting more. You should love as God loves us." This statement has had a profound impact on me since I was that curious little girl of four. Perhaps this is the reason I still cite Shel Silverstein's The Giving Tree as one of my favorite books of all time. A few years ago, I attended my cousin's daughter's 1-year birthday party and I decided to gift...

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Should Christians Support the Health Care Reform Bill? (And a Question for My International Readers)

A Christian website I visit frequently recently opened a debate about the newly-signed health care reform bill. I will not get into the specifics here, but one recurrent theme caught my eye: the number of Christians who are vehemently opposed to the bill on the basis that they will need to contribute more in taxes to support those who cannot afford quality health care on their own. I was horrified. Whatever happened to sacrificing for the needy? Selflessness? Love? Aren't those some of the greatest expressions of Christianity? Jesus tells us in the Bible that the greatest commandment is, "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind." And the...

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