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I like books, gadgets, spicy food, and art. I dislike shopping, hot weather, and the laws of entropy. Although I am a self-proclaimed computer nerd, I still have a love for handbags and makeup... and I am always teetering on high heels. To learn more about me, visit the "About" page.

Thursday
11Mar2010

Would You Try Human Breast Milk?

Last week, a NY chef made headlines by adding cheese made of human breast milk to his menu.

The dish caused quite a stir and even managed to make its way to national news outlets. Those who tried the dish found it quite tasty; however, the general public found the mere idea of healthy adults consuming human breast milk disturbing.

As an avid Friends fan, I couldn't help but be reminded of the episode where Ross, Chandler, and Rachel freak out upon witnessing Phoebe and Joey try Carol's breast milk.

I think that once I start breastfeeding my children, I wouldn't mind trying a bit just to see what it tasted like. I asked J if he would try my breast milk, and he said, "Sure, why not?"

That being said, I can't imagine trying someone else's breast milk.

Are you comfortable with the idea of dishes made of human breast milk? Would you ever try a family member or a friend's breast milk?

(And if you've tasted breast milk, does it really taste like cantaloupe, as Susan and Joey state?)

Thursday
04Mar2010

Psyched for "The Office" Baby Episode Tonight!

Yesterday, I received a sample diaper in the mail. I'm not sure where they got my name and address (probably from one of the many online pregnancy communities to which I belong), but the gesture was appreciated nonetheless.

"Do you know how to change a diaper?" I asked J.

"No."

"Why don't you practice on this teddy bear? Or the dog?"

He looked at me like I was crazy.

Can you guess where I got the idea from? If you guessed the promo clip for tonight's The Office one-hour special event, you're correct!

I am so, so excited to see Jim & Pam's baby. When I first became pregnant last August, one of the first things that popped into my head was, "Ooh, I'm gonna be pregnant at the same time as Pam!" I was devastated when I lost my baby, but continued to cheer on the Halpert baby. And now that I'm pregnant again, I'm extra psyched and extra excited for my favorite TV couple.

Is anyone else looking forward to tonight's The Office?

Wednesday
03Mar2010

The Death Folder

The last time my sister came to visit, she asked if she could use J's laptop to check her email.

"Hold on, I'm almost done with my stuff. Why don't you use my laptop instead?"

"It's ok, J's laptop is right here; I'll just use this one."

"Ermm...I don't know the password to unlock his computer."

"Really?"

Obviously my sister thought it weird that I didn't know my own husband's computer password.

J and I have always been like this. We do not know each other's passwords, PINs, social security numbers, account numbers, etc. We do not have a joint bank account. Heck...we don't even open each others' mail!

I had a slight problem with this in the earlier stages of our relationship, but it no longer bothers me. We have nothing to hide from each other, and if one person ever needs the other's information, we just simply ask (and forget).

In an old episode of HIMYM, Marshall and Lily create "death folders" for each other in case one of them dies unexpectedly. Each death folder contains all important account information, passwords, PINs, and instructions. J and I will be making death folders as well, but we have yet to do so out of sheer laziness (we will soon — I promise!).

If you are in a committed relationship, have you created a death folder for your significant other? Or do you just openly share passwords, etc with each other?

Do you think it's weird — as my sister does — that a husband and wife do not openly share this important information with each other?

Tuesday
02Mar2010

The Curse of the Model Minority

Last month, I came across an article titled "Do colleges redline Asian-Americans?" and I still haven't been able to get it out of my mind.

Do colleges really set a higher standard for Asian Americans? If this is true, as the article implies, the same must hold true for places of employment, no?

When I applied for colleges, or whenever I applied for jobs, I always happily volunteered my ethnicity on application forms. After all, my last name is nothing but Asian. But at the same time, I knew that being Asian gave me a slight disadvantage.

(Going slightly off tangent, I have always envied my Filipino-American friends for their Hispanic-sounding surnames. You can't deny that they are more likely to be offered an interview because the college/company would like more diversity in their communities.)

Berate me all you want, but I have never been a fan of affirmative action for this reason (ETA: to be more specific, afirmation action based on race.). I strongly believe that people should be accepted to colleges and be offered jobs based on merit, not ethnicity.

Previous generations of Asian Americans have given up so much so that their kids (and grandchildren, great-grandchildren, etc) can have the same opportunities as the Caucasians of this country. I know Asians have come a long way in America, but what is the point if we are considered "model minorities" who are held to a higher standard solely based on our race?

It sucks that my kids will have to earn better grades than their white friends just to be accepted to the same schools. Or that I, as well as my many intelligent, creative, and outstanding Asian-American peers have been subjected to this reverse discrimination all our lives.

</rant>

Monday
01Mar2010

Pip the British Schoolboy

When we first got Comang his previous owners handed over all his grooming supplies (including an electric trimmer) and I was sure that we would be able to groom him ourselves.

Our first grooming experience was the stuff of legends. Fur flying everywhere. Sneeze attacks from the fine fur that refused to settle to the ground. J shouting "Be careful!" every time I got within an inch of Comang's manhood. Then...a blackout.

Yes, our neighborhood experienced a power outage midway through our first grooming session. What timing! Trying to locate a flashlight in the pitch black dark is never fun. Try doing that in the midst of a crazed dog grooming session. Needless to say, Comang got loose in the dark and we found his fur in every conceivable corner of the apartment for the next few months.

It was a sign. We called it a loss and decided to have Comang professionally groomed from then on.

Luckily, there is a fantastic dog groomer (they call themselves a "pet spa") just two blocks from our house. I love them, because not only do they have a top-notch groomer, they are a local business and I am always apt to support "the little guys" over the likes of Petsmart.

Comang loves it there too. He's quite girly and loves to be pampered, petted, and be made pretty. Everyone fawns over him at this groomer and they constantly tell me that he's one of the best-behaved dogs on their clientele list.

Since our monthly grooming session was today, I decided to take some "before" and "after" pictures...

Before. When it is time for a haircut, Comang tends to resemble an old drunk. Here he has some horrific bedhair from the nap I interrupted.

After. For about a week following his haircut, J and I call our dog "Pip." Pip the British schoolboy. Doesn't he look like a Pip, all prim and proper?

All he's missing are a waistcoat, a hat, and a walking stick!

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