Did I mention that J's currently away on vacation? He's back to his motherland — Hong Kong — and with travel time, he'll be away for TEN WHOLE DAYS.  8-O This is the longest we've been apart since we got married (even when I stayed at my parents' for 2 months last summer, we still saw each other at least a couple of times a week). And while I'm glad he's getting some much-deserved rest while catching up with old friends, things haven't been so peachy for me. Because as it often is the case in life, getting handed one lemon wasn't enough — people and circumstances have been hurling them at me left and right and all around. Needless to say, I'm very...