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Judging Others for Their Financial Decisions

I once knew a blogger who lived an enviable life. Not only was she gorgeous, her husband was extremely wealthy and handsome. She constantly wrote of her designer purchases, exotic getaways, and decorating their mansion with custom-made furniture and one-of-a-kind decor. Soon, she started getting snarky comments from readers who judged her for her lifestyle. "Shallow bitch," they would write. "Don't you know there is a recession going on? How can you brag about being rich when so many people are hurting? Why don't you donate some money to charity?" After receiving numerous comments of this nature, she shut down her blog. I felt bad for this girl, because she genuinely seemed interesting and wrote of her extravagant life without sounding snobby. Then I...

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Keeping the Name a Secret

J has a complex about baby names: if he knows anyone in real life with a certain name (even if he hasn't talked to that person since the 2nd grade), it's out. Not surprisingly, this makes naming our children quite difficult as he is one of the most natural connectors I've ever known. Luckily we were able to settle on two names (one boy, one girl) quite early in the baby-planning process. So when people asked if we have any potential names, I happily obliged...

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An Awesome Book

When I first found out I was pregnant, the baby-preparation experience I looked forward to the most was not decorating the nursery or picking out the baby clothes. It was building the baby's first library. As a avid lover of books, I absolutely cannot wait to introduce my child to all the books I loved as a child. Where the Wild Things Are. The Giving Tree. The Velveteen Rabbit. The list goes on and on. (And if my child takes after J and does not like reading much, I'll just DIE. DIIIEEEEE, I tell you!) Yesterday, Wired's GeekDad introduced me to another book I must add to the list: An Awesome Book by Dallas Clayton. I immediately clicked on over to read the book...

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Tater Tot Baby Blog

I was planning to continue writing about Tater Tot here, or even perhaps create a subdomain for it. However, J was insistent on creating a separate blog devoted entirely to our little one. I finished it last night (stupid WordPress!) and it is now live at http://www.tatertotlau.com. The new blog will feature three writers: Tater Tot, Mommy, and Daddy. Please go say hi! P.S. - I will continue to write about my pregnancy on this blog, but sparingly. ...

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