May 1, 2008  •  In Personal, Travel

Honeymoon Day 6: Santorini

On day 6 we packed our bags and headed to the pier for the ferry to Santorini. I had no idea what to expect, but the ferry was very large and quite luxurious…the seats were far roomier and more comfortable than the ones on planes!

The Trip from Mykonos to Santorini:

With stops at the islands of Paros and Ios, the entire trip took roughly 2.5 hours. Luckily, we had entertainment…THE BEST part of the ferry trip was:

They played Return of the Jedi!

After disembarking, we met our transport who drove us up a VERY steep cliff. The roads were straight out of a movie: narrow, winding zig-zags that were cut directly into the cliff.

After driving through the town of Fira, we approached some buildings that were clearly more luxurious and secluded from the rest. This was where the Santorini Princess was located.

The hotels we stayed in at Athens and Mykonos were both 3.5-star hotels, but we had decided to splurge and go out with our hotel in Santorini. I had learned about the Santorini Princess from a internet friend and worldwide traveler who informed me that this is, hands down, the best hotel she’s ever stayed in. With 5-star accommodations and and impeccable reviews, the Santorini Princess sure did not disappoint.

Arriving at Santorini and the Santorini Princess:

Not only was the view gorgeous (the front faced west for watercolor sunsets, the back faced east for immaculate sunrises), the facilities were A-class and the staff just brilliant. For example, they only came to clean the room when we were out, as opposed to other hotels who usually interrupt for maid service. How did they know we were out?

The restaurant served a great mix of traditional Greek and Mediterranean dishes, and both J and I agree that the food here was the best of all we tasted in Greece. The hotel even has its own sommelier who was very friendly but proper, recommending a €21 bottle of white wine that tasted far superior than $100+ bottles we’ve tasted in the states.

(Note: Santorini, with its hot sun and wet soil, produces some of the best white wine in the world. They say that there is more white wine than water in Santorini, and this certainly seemed to hold true during our stay there.)

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May 1, 2008  •  In Thursday Geek-isms

Hump Day Hook-Ups

I’m still jet-lagged from the trip but I couldn’t pull myself away from my beloved Google Reader, which had thousands of feeds waiting for my return.

  1. Dealzmodo Ahoy: HDTVs Will Get Stupid Cheap Next Month, Gizmodo. My jaw dropped as I read this, because we had just purchased a large screen LCD television last month. $F@(*SKJF!!!!
  2. Why New York Pizza is so Tough to Replicate, Neatorama. I’ve had “New York style” pizzas all over the country, and I don’t think I’m being biased in believing that NY truly has the best pizza (even better than Chicago). Even pizza from Penn Station is better than some of the crap I’ve tasted in other cities.
  3. Life Imitating Art, Perez Hilton. Amy Poehler and Will Arnett are pregnant. Can they be my parents instead? Seriously. They’d make such cool parents! They’re up there right alongside Randy Marsh in my book.
  4. Harrison Ford & Carrie Fisher had drunken space sex, The Superficial. Han Solo and Princess Leia really did hook up! Sweet…
  5. 5 Superhero (and Supervillian) Origins, Mental Floss Blog. Who knew that Lex Luthor lost his hair in a freak chemical plant explosion?
  6. Superior Alternatives to Crappy Windows Software, Lifehacker. A must-read for any Windows users…and I wholeheartedly agree with most of the suggestions!
  7. Tiny Lego Men Assist in iPhone Unboxing, Wired Gadget Lab. It is my theory that all (girl) geeks must get their panties wet when viewing unboxing pictures of the best and latest gadgets. Add tiny Lego figures? The floodgates have opened!
  8. Slide to Unlock Tee: Not the Way to Declare Your Girl Geekery, Geeksugar. I generally don’t like gadget/technology sites geared for women because I find them misinformed, demeaning, and oftentimes mocking us true geeks via pink, “form over function” materials. This site is one of them. However, I subscribe just in case there is something that pops up…and this week there was! This t-shirt from ThinkGeek is just fantabulous. Me must have. And no, I don’t find it insulting. I figure that 99.8% of men check out all women’s bewbs anyway, so why not keep them entertained?
  9. WWW domain country codes of the world, Boing Boing. Another perfect blend of design and geekery! I am very tempted to purchase a copy…
  10. What makes a design “Googley”? The Official Google Blog. I found this a great read, because not only does it pertain to web development and design, it also applies to business models and life as
    well.
Apr 30, 2008  •  In Personal, Travel

Honeymoon Days 4-5: Mykonos

Our second day in Mykonos was a beautiful, sunny day. After a small breakfast we laid out by the pool and actually got some sun. Afterwards we decided to take the hotel shuttle into town.

Mykonos is a very windy island, and since the main town sits right along the harbor, the small winding streets are subject to many unpredictable and powerful drafts. For this reason, it is advisable not to wear dresses or skirts when walking around town. I repeat: DO NOT WEAR DRESSES OR SKIRTS when walking around Mykonos. Because it was a sunny day, I foolishly wore a skirt and ended up flashing many locals and delighted Japanese tourists. J was no help at all; all he would say whenever a gust of wind lifted up my skirt was “Nice” or “That’s hot.”

Our second day at Mykonos was disappointing. We woke up to the sound of window shutters banging against the building, and the crazy wind remained for the remainder of the day. I used to get scared when living by myself on the 17th floor of a high-rise apartment building in Baltimore because the wind was so terrifyingly noisy. Well, the wind at Mykonos was a lot worse. It knocked over umbrellas, tables, and chairs…even the hotel staff opted to stay indoors. A couple of them actually apologized, saying the wind was unusually strong that day.

We ended up spending the majority of the day in our room sleeping, watching reruns of South Park and The Office on my laptop, and playing high-low (yes, very classy for a honeymoon):

(The hot pink playing cards are courtesy of my sister who packed it in the awesome “Honeymoon Kit” she assembled for us)

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Apr 24, 2008  •  In Personal, Travel

Honeymoon Day 3: Mykonos

We got up bright and early on Day 3 to catch a flight to Mykonos (our travel agency recommended air travel since ferries from Athens to Mykonos aren’t very reliable). After a delicious breakfast, we headed to the airport to find…a tiny, dinky plane. We joked that if the plane crashes, at least we’ll die happy on our honeymoon.

Getting There:

Fortunately, the 25-minute flight was uneventful and we arrived at the beautiful island of Mykonos and settled into the San Marco Hotel.

The San Marco Hotel, Mykonos:

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Apr 24, 2008  •  In Personal, Travel

Honeymoon Day 2: Athens

What’s a visit to Greece without a tour of some of the world’s oldest treasures? Luckily, one of J’s friends from college is currently working as an archeologist (!) in Athens, so she took a day off to show us around the historic sites. We were able to squeeze in the Acropolis, Agora, and Kerameikos.

(I was a dork and I forgot to charge my camera the night before…so the last quarter of the pictures were taken with J’s camera phone. Why did he bring his camera when he can’t use it? I have no idea.)

Click on the thumbnails to see the full gallery!

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Apr 23, 2008  •  In Thursday Geek-isms

Hump Day Hook-Ups

I’m currently sitting at Athens Airport waiting for my flight to Mykonos so I have some extra time. You didn’t think I’d neglect a weekly feature just because I’m on my honeymoon, did you? 😉

  1. Flashback: What the World Was Like When the First iPod Was Released, Wired Gadget Lab. I have a 5-year old 3rd generation iPod that still hasn’t crapped out on me. In fact, the only thing wrong with it is that the battery dies after about 15 minutes…but I still use it in the car where it is constantly plugged into the power source. I still can’t believe the iPod is only 7 years old!
  2. Live Mesh: First Look at Microsoft’s New Platform, ReadWriteWeb. Microsoft’s answer to Google Gears…it also sounds a lot like Apple’s iWeb.
  3. Kart around NYC with free Mario cab rides this Thursday, Joystiq. Sigh…so many things I’m missing this week! On the bright side, Mario Kart Wii should be ready for us when we return.
  4. History’s 5 Best Interface Designs, Wired Gadget Lab. I love articles like this!
  5. Global Warming and Bad Harvests Raise Cost of Beer, Gothamist. Why?!? Why must terrible things like this happen?
  6. Delta “Cozy Suites” Make Economy Class Semi-Tolerable, Gizmodo. This actually looks pretty dope. Two more years!
  7. Death Star Wedding Cake Wins Fanboy of the Year Award, Sets Grounds for Divorce, Gizmodo. I really wanted a cool wedding cake, especially after seeing the now-famous Super Mario Wedding Cake. But nooo…we needed to spend the money on flowers instead. You tell me which is better: flowers that die, or a totally geekalicious wedding cake and the fame that comes with it.
  8. Dying ‘Last Lecture’ Prof’s New Book Becomes a Runaway Seller, Wired Science. Randy
    Pausch’s story holds a special place in my heart because he was very involved in the organization where I work…I’ve even done some marketing publicizing this “Last Lecture”! His life truly is inspirational and touching.
  9. Problem Child: Putting the Fun in Dysfunctional, Jezebel. Researchers at Johns Hopkins has found that parents are way more strict with their older children than their younger siblings. (Duh!) But wait, they even have a mathematical formula to prove it! Ahh, my good ol’ alma mater…
  10. WTC Construction Update: Freedom’s Garbage, Curbed. A homeless man, while rifling through garbage, found the blueprints for Freedom tower. Wow I feel so safe!
Apr 22, 2008  •  In Personal, Travel

Honeymoon Day 1: Athens

Greece is amazing! I’ll try not to go into too much detail so please forgive me if start to ramble. (Click on the thumbnails to view the full gallery)

Getting There:

We arrived at the hotel a full 4 hours before check-in, so we had to wait a bit at the hotel bar. However, the room was worth the wait. They upgraded us from a regular room to their trademark Graffiti Room! Each Graffiti Room is painted by a famous artist and has a different theme. The theme of our room was “Sleepy.”

Baby Grand Hotel, Athens:

Unfortunately, we both passed out almost immediately after settling in. After wasting almost the entire day, we got up at around 8pm and managed to explore the area a bit. We ended up in Plaka, which is Athens’ old town and we had dinner there.

First night in Athens:

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Apr 20, 2008  •  In Personal, Relationships

We’re Married!

We’re leaving for the airport in an hour, but I’ll continue to keep updating in Greece!

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Apr 18, 2008  •  In Personal, Relationships

I am…

I am…

I will be…

I am getting married today.

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Apr 15, 2008  •  In Depression, Personal

Unmedicated

Back in college I went through a dark period of constant despair, suicidal thoughts, and even self-mutilation. A good friend urged me to seek treatment, and I reluctantly did.

I was diagnosed with major depression, took a medical leave of absence from school, and was treated with psychotherapy and medications for the next few years.

So when I read today’s NYTimes article “Who Are We? Coming of Age on Antidepressants”, which discusses the lack of information regarding the long-term effects of antidepressants, I naturally thought back to that period of my life.

I’ll be honest with you: those drugs were pretty dope.

I was on both Prozac and Welbutrin, and at one point I was maxed out on both doses. I have never done illegal drugs, but I like to think that this cocktail provided a sense of euphoria that must be similar to some of the weaker street substances.

An added bonus was that both drugs killed my appetite. This, along with the increased energy they provided, led me to shed pounds with no increased effort. I was at my thinnest while taking these drugs.

However, nothing is perfect and there were some cons that came a-knockin’ with these pills.

First, they killed my sex drive. Zero. Zip. Nilch. Nada. Not only did the desire diminish, the land down under would stay as dry as a desert.

Second, I would constantly wake up in the middle of the night. These weren’t peaceful, bleary-eyed wakeups either. Rather, my eyes would snap open and immediately my mind would flood with thoughts that refused to stay silent.

There also were the tremors. My hands would be prone to tremors that made me want to hide them at all times. These tremors were visible, constant reminders of my illness, of my weakness.

In the article the author mentions that many who have taken antidepressants for years become so dependent on them that their lives and core beings become altered. And this is the fourth and final reason I’ve decided to stop my meds: I was afraid to lose my passion.

During one of my many therapy sessions my psychologist recommended that I read a book called Touched with Fire. Written by Kay Redfield Jamison, the book examines the link between manic depression (otherwise known as bipolar disorder) and creativity. Although I wasn’t bipolar, she suggested that I, as an artist, may find solace in knowing that some of history’s most brilliant and creative minds also suffered from bouts of depression.

The book also brought up a point that sticks with me even to this day: many of the geniuses mentioned in the book would refuse to take medication and/or refused treatment for fear that their creativity would be hindered.

The Academy Award-winning movie A Beautiful Mind touches on this topic as well. In the movie, John Nash refuses to take his meds because they interfere with his way of thinking. In short, he is not able to do his work, his passion, while on his medication.

I confess that I haven’t been feeling my best as of late. In the past year or so, I have had episodes of pure despair and uncharacteristic tendencies. I have morbid thoughts and I retreat from friends and the outside world at large. I am scared, because I know these are signs of a possible relapse.

At the same time, I have never felt so alive. The intense downs contrast so beautifully with life in general that I cannot feel but feel inspired. I bang out tunes on the piano, many melodies from the deep corners of my soul. I write stories filled with details and embellishments that surprise even myself. And for the first time in years I want to start painting again.

As a textbook ISFP I have trouble opening myself to others. However, those who are close to me can attest that I am a very passionate person, and although this passion has gotten me in trouble many times over, it is one of the things I treasure the most about my personality.

This is precisely the reason I do not want to go back into therapy, or start taking antidepressants again.

Sure, I was generally happier while on the meds. And I may be doing something very stupid and very dangerous by refusing treatment. But the fact remains that they made me lose my passion. I needed…I need these downs, for without them my life would play in low contrast.

I need the melancholy that saturates life with the most vivid colors.

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