Apr 6, 2010  •  In Finance, Personal

It Never Hurts to Ask!

Yesterday, I received some good news and some bad news. Let’s go for the good first. A few months ago, I wondered to myself why we couldn’t get a lower mortgage rate. J and I had purchased our condo at the height of the housing boom (and just before the giant dip in mortgage rates), […]

Apr 4, 2010  •  In Personal, Pregnancy

Porn Star Boobs

I am not as worried about my weight gain anymore. While the great majority of women I know seem to have lost weight in their first trimesters (which I find discouraging because that makes me feel like a fatty in comparison), I have come to realize that not every woman handles pregnancy the same way. […]

Apr 1, 2010  •  In Asian, Personal, Relationships

Cultural Expectations of Family

As mentioned in my last post, my in-laws (J’s parents) will be visiting for 1.5 months starting this weekend. J’s parents live in Hong Kong, so we only get to see them a handful of times a year. However, each visit lasts at least a couple of weeks — the longest of which was 5 […]

Mar 31, 2010  •  In Personal, Pregnancy

As “That Month” Approaches…

I am officially in my second trimester and feeling great. I check my baby’s heartbeat with a fetal doppler every few days and know that it’s doing okay. But as “that month” approaches, I can’t help but be depressed. The nursery would be almost fully prepared. I should be waddling around with my stomach “out […]

Mar 25, 2010  •  In Books, Personal

The Return of “The Baby-Sitters Club”

I recently discovered that one of my favorite series while growing up, The Baby-Sitters Club, will be re-issued by Scholastic in April 2010. A side-by-side comparison of the old and new covers   As you can see above, the re-issue will have new cover designs (which I’m not sure I like…I liked the old covers […]

Mar 22, 2010  •  In Baby, Personal, Pregnancy

Hello Baby!

This morning J and I made a trip to Holy Name Medical Center — where I plan on giving birth — to have our nuchal translucency (NT) scan. The NT scan, otherwise known as the first trimester screening, is a combination of a sonogram and blood tests to identify risks of chromosomal abnormalities (e.g. Down’s […]

Mar 21, 2010  •  In Personal, Pregnancy

Ashamed of My Weight Gain

I have not written anything about weight gain so far…because I am so ashamed of it. Although I had morning sickness with my last pregnancy, I still had a tremendous appetite and ate everything in sight. So when I lost the baby at 12 weeks, I was already 5 lbs over my normal weight. The […]

Mar 21, 2010  •  In Comang, Personal

Not the Brightest Bulb in the Room

Reader tyeung612 left the following comment about my last post involving Comang: I love your dog…I just wanted to share that! I have a shih tzu myself and I’m not sure if it is the breed or if it’s the fact that i dropped him on his head as a puppy but he’s definitely not […]