Jun 9, 2011  •  In Books, Geek, Personal, Reviews

A Book to Keep You Cool This Summer

I don’t know about the rest of the country, but we are absolutely SWELTERING here in the NYC area. Our nanny actually got a call from her son earlier today because all the local schools were closing early due to the intense heat. As I vastly prefer the cold over the heat, I usually stay indoors when the weather is like this, thankful for the wonderful invention that is central air, gorging on cool, fresh fruit and (if I have the time) reading a good book.

And what better way to stay cool in the summer than with a scary tale that chills your bones?

I am sure that every avid reader has at least one book that they can read over and over again. I have many such books, some of which are so dog-eared that I need to take extra care when re-reading them. But my all-time favorite horror/thriller book has to be Christopher Pike’s The Season of Passage — my personal copy has been read so many times that it’s practically become a part of me.

Many of my readers who have grown up in the United States should be familiar with the name Christopher Pike, as he was one of the most popular writers of young adult thrillers in the 1990s (along with the likes of R.L. Stine and Lois Duncan). I personally favored Christopher Pike above all the other authors in the genre because his style of writing is simply spectacular.

Most Christopher Pike fans are surprised to discover that he has written a few adult fiction titles as well. The Season of Passage is one such book and remains my favorite of all his books — young adult and adult — because the story is just so well-spun and well-told, and it combines two of my favorite genres: science fiction and vampires.


I prefer this older book cover design over the new one.

Here is a description of the book, from its Amazon page:

In 1996, the first unmanned space probe to land on Mars sent back sensational analyses (including secret pictures of huge footprints) before going dead. Four years later, the Russian crew of the manned Lenin loses contact in midmission. When the first American crew, which includes Dr. Lauren Wagner as medical officer, lands there in 2002, the mysteries expand rather than resolve, and author Pike hits top suspense with the American team discovering a Russian cosmonaut still alive in his bed in the orbiting Lenin, despite a freezing temperature in the ship. To be sure, he seemingly has no pulse and answers all questions with a fixed zombie grin that never wavers. When he leads the Americans below to comb the Martian surface by jeep and by foot, and then into a dark cave where they discover something very much like water, the reluctant reader begins shouting warnings. Meanwhile, back on earth, Lauren’s sister, 13-year-old Jennifer, begins writing a fantasy tale about her life as the Princess Chaneen, a goddess among the Asurians, which somehow ties in with the vampires of Mars and for a while takes up alternate chapters with the sf/horror tale, though sf folks may not willingly accept the fantasy novel interwoven with the main text. Only Lauren and fellow astronaut Gary “survive” the Martian ordeal and return to earth where Jennifer has killed herself–or has she? At least she’s been buried. But is the Princess Chaneen still around, to fight the vampire infection sent back to earth in the two astronauts called Lauren and Gary? Not without its ups and downs but, at its best, both riveting and a back-prickler.

If you read through the reviews on Amazon, one thing is clear: even a full 20 years after the books initial release, readers still LOVE this book and many consider count it as one of their favorite reads. As reviewer Russ writes,

What can I say that isn’t said in the fact that 147 (out of 155) reviews have given this title a 5 star rating? 
And that most of the remaining reviews are 4 stars.

This is probably one of the best paperback books you’ll ever read.

I’m still surprised that the mainstream literary community has not picked up on this gem of a novel. I personally think that it would make a fantastic movie (any Hollywood execs reading this?), one that I would pay good money to see even if the screenwriter/director has butchered it to pieces.

Has any of you read this book? What do you think of it?

Can you recommend any other scary books to keep me cool in the summer heat?

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Jun 8, 2011  •  In Baby, Claire, Motherhood, Parenting, Personal

Working With Nature

A few weeks ago, I was shocked to discover some tan spots on Claire’s scalp. They varied in size from a eighth of an inch to half an inch in diameter. The coloring looked similar to how one’s skin looks as a cut/scrape heals, so I immediately checked to see if they were results of injuries. They were not.

The spots are flat and do not wash out with water and soap. They do not seem to bother her at all, so I am pretty certain that they are birthmarks — café au lait spots, to be more specific — which I did not notice prior to that day due to her hair. (I will be bringing them up at her next pediatrician appointment, just to be certain.) I suspect that I was only able to see them this time because we were out in the sun. Even then, they’re hard to spot unless you’re actually seeking them out.


The spots are hardly noticeable, especially with her dark hair covering them.

My first thought at discovering these birthmarks was, ‘Thank goodness they’re on her scalp and covered by her hair!’

…And I immediately felt guilty for having this thought. Because as a mother, aren’t I supposed to love and accept my daughter exactly how she is, imperfections and all?

But the more I thought about it, the more complicated the issue seemed to become.

At what point does a parent intervene with nature, i.e. the way you were born, to help ensure the best possible life and opportunities for your children?

Because as much as I hate to admit it, we live in a world where one’s looks count a lot more than we would like. We also live in an unjust world where more attractive people are generally treated better and afforded greater opportunities.

There’s also the fact that kids can be extra cruel. I myself endured tons of teasing growing up and would wish nothing but the opposite for my children.

So if those spots were someplace more conspicuous, like on her face, I would not be opposed to having them treated and/or removed later on in her life (but only if she wished to do so).

And — because I make it no secret that I myself have had cosmetic surgery and am not ashamed of it — I would not be opposed to her having the same surgery if she wishes, as long as she is past the age of 18 and is certain that she wants it.

Let’s make one thing clear: I do not love my daughter any less for having the spots, not having a double eyelid, etc. Nor would I love her any more if she did not have the spots or had double eyelids. I would merely not be opposed to her getting these cosmetic procedures done if it would make her happier, more confident, and may lead to an easier life.

J, on the other hand, is vehemently against altering your natural self. I still remember asking him, right before Claire was born, if he would be against her getting reconstructive surgery to correct a cleft palate (should she be born with one). Even then, he says that he would hesitate.

But then again, J was always popular in school, well-liked with tons of friends and was rarely teased. He would not know the emotional trauma that can result from bullying and teasing. (Would this even make a difference?)

What do you think? Should we all just be proud of what nature gave us, no matter what? Would you ever physically change anything about your children if it meant that it could give them a better life? If so, where would you draw the line? A large mole? Braces? Ear piercings?

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Jun 7, 2011  •  In Books, Funny, Geek, Movies

Harry Potter Math

With the final HP film just a month away, how can any self-respectable fan not crack a smile at this?

Via BuzzFeed.

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Jun 7, 2011  •  In Baby, Claire, Parenting, Personal

Our Very Own Mary Poppins

Weeks after placing “part-time nanny wanted” ads, I was still getting tons of applications and found myself only lazily skimming through them.

It wasn’t that I didn’t want the help. Rather, I was literally receiving hundreds of applications, most of which I knew to be were from people I wouldn’t trust to prepare my coffee, nevermind watch my precious daughter.

There were also more than a few qualified applicants whom I was having heckuva time emailing, calling, and struggling to set up interviews.

“I wish I could hire someone to help me hire someone,” I complained to my sister. (Yes, I am that lazy.)

“Why don’t I help you?” she volunteered.

I almost slapped myself right then and there. My sister had experience working as a nanny, so she knows what to look for and which warning signs to watch out for. And as soon as I agreed, she helped me edit my ad, set up a new email address which she could access, and promised me to start phoning and interviewing people asap.

And that’s how we found Cindy. Cindy lives in the next town over, has experience working with infants, does not need to work but would like some time away from her house and wouldn’t mind the extra money. Not only does she have great references, she has a charming, bubbly personality which I knew would work great with Claire. Her schedule is flexible enough that we could rely on her three times a week (for 5 hours at a time) but also change the days and times around when needed.

I knew that we had found our nanny after just the first interview. And Cindy’s first day is today.

After spending the first couple of hours with her and Claire, and making sure that Claire seemed comfortable with her, I retreated to my room. I am now writing this post with one ear at the door, and am happy to report that I hear Claire’s giggles emanating from the other room.

Here’s to hoping that Cindy works out, and that our household will be a happier and smoother one with her help!

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Jun 5, 2011  •  In Beauty, Personal

The Preggo Chop

Being pregnant, it is not uncommon to have days when you feel utterly unattractive. Even if you have been through it before like I have, the insane amount of changes to your body makes you feel out of control and continually self-conscious.

Perhaps that is why so many pregnant women choose to make drastic changes to their appearance (mainly, in the form of their hair)?

Last weekend I visited my favorite salon for a trim…and found myself asking my stylist to chop 6 inches off my long mane.

I chattered away nervously as she make the first few cuts. I was both horrified and devastated to see the long locks falling to the floor, but knew that it was too late to ask her to stop. When she was finally finished…

I stared at my reflection in the mirror, only to discover that loved my new haircut.

I haven’t had my hair this short since college, so even after a full week I still get startled to see myself in the mirror every morning. But there is now so much more movement and manageability, not to mention the (literal) extra weight off my head.

Since the pictures I have up on my internet life (including this blog) are old ones, I slathered on some extra makeup today and asked J for an impromptu photoshoot.

I am now thinking of dying my hair too — again, something I haven’t done since college. I’ve read that the ombre look is popular now, and when I asked my stylist about it she told me that not only would look great with my new haircut, it would give it some extra texture too.

What do you think? Should I go for the color change too?

P.S. — Notice anything different about my header? You’ve asked for it…Comang is now included too!

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Jun 4, 2011  •  In Art/Design, Movies

20 Minimalist Typography Movie Poster Designs

I am loving these simplistic movie posters, imagined by Swedish designer Patrik Svensson of Prince Hat. Not only do they bring out some of the best and most memorable elements from each movie, they also accomplish this with the use of as fewest attributes as possible.

A couple of them are a bit difficult to comprehend (Can someone explain The Usual Suspects one for me? That looks like two paper clips…), but once you “get” the design, you can only marvel at its genius.

Via Bit Rebels.

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Jun 3, 2011  •  In Aerin, Parenting, Personal, Pregnancy

It’s a…

Girl!

…but we’re not certain.

BebeDeux was moving around so much that the doc had a hard time getting a good look at the goods. He thinks it’s a girl, but he says he wouldn’t bet on it.

We’ll just have to wait until the 14th to find out for sure. (Sigh.)

I know that the gender is still not definite, but I wouldn’t be lying if I said I was initially upset. (I have always wanted two boys.) J was a teeny bit disappointed too, but only because he says I had built up the expectation.

Now that we’ve had some time to let the news sink in, we’re feeling a lot better about it. We already have a great girl name picked out but were still undecided on a boy name. My mother tells me that having a little sister would be easier for Claire and that they will become very close.

There’s also the theory that attractive people are more likely to have girls than boys, which J — ever the humble one — likes to boast about and exclaim with a woeful sigh, “It’s inevitable that I will only have girls!”  🙄  We all know that the real reason he’s more likely to give me XX sperm is due to the fact that he’s a software engineer and works with computers all day long (apparently, XY sperm tend to die off in such environments).

As I have discussed previously, if BebeDeux does turn out to be a girl, we will be trying for a third baby within the next few years.

Now, please excuse me while I go feed the beast (aka my pregnant self).

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Jun 2, 2011  •  In Aerin, Baby, Personal, Pregnancy

Let the Guessing Begin!

I am now 18 weeks pregnant with BebeDeux. Since babies’ genitalia start to become distinguishable via ultrasound starting at 16 weeks, you know what that means…

It’s time to start the gender-guessing game!

I waited until today to post this, because I have an OB appointment tomorrow morning. If BebeDeux cooperates, we will be able to know whether Claire will be having a little sister or a little brother.

If BebeDeux is uncooperative, we will need to wait until June 14, which is our Level II Ultrasound (otherwise known as the anatomy ultrasound).

I’m really not sure what we’re having at this point. My symptoms have been very similar with both pregnancies, but I am a bit more nauseous and have been experiencing migraines. The biggest difference with this pregnancy is that my skin has remained free of acne — if you can remember with my pregnancy with Claire, I broke out all over my body.

I am leaning towards a boy solely due to the Ramzi Method. But even that isn’t foolproof.

Would you care to take a stab at the gender? Take the poll below!

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Here’s to hoping that BebeDeux cooperates tomorrow so we don’t need to wait another week to find out!

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Jun 2, 2011  •  In Geek, Personal, Sports, Toys

The 5 Greatest NBA Finals Moments, ‘Legoized’

After an embarrassing performance by my beloved Knicks in this year’s NBA Playoffs (way to celebrate your first playoff appearance in 7 years!), I must admit that I haven’t been quite as into the rest of the playoffs, or even the finals.

But even I couldn’t ignore Dallas’ spectacular sweep of last year’s champions, or the revival of the Chicago vs Miami rivalry.

Or the fabulous video below.

Now, with Game 2 of the finals scheduled for tonight, I am finding myself rooting for the Mavericks. Perhaps I am still harboring some resentment toward LeBron?

What about you? Who are you rooting for in this year’s NBA Finals?

Via Up Next in Sports.

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Jun 1, 2011  •  In Blogging, Personal

Site Redesign (Geek in Heels 6.0)

It’s done. After working all last week and through the long weekend, my site redesign is finally complete.

Introducing Geek in Heels 6.0 —

I know that when adding a place for ads, I could’ve just easily done so with my last design. But I had been itching for a redesign for ages — so I figured, why not now?

(J is thrilled that I included him in my banner. He says I better add Comang too — what do you think?)

I am still working out some minor kinks here and there, so please bear with me for the next week or so. If you notice anything out of the ordinary, leave a comment or send me a message via my contact form.

Now, on to the ads…

Since I just added the JavaScript to start running BlogAds on this site, I do not have any advertisers yet and I may not for quite some time. I went with their suggested rate of $40/month for a 160×100 ad (which is the same size as the “Advertise Here!” image) while larger sizes and Flash/video files cost up to $192/month.

(Did you know that Perez Hilton, who also uses BlogAds, charges $4,000 per week for a 160×200 ad?  😯 )

You can see all my ad options here.

And since I am new to the ad game…

For a limited time, get 30% off your first ad placement with
the discount code NEWAD30! (without the exclamation point)

Notice that the bigger ad, or the longer duration you buy, the bigger your discount will be.  😉

And that is what I’ve been up to the past few days.

That, and Claire’s teething. Earlier today, she would start screaming if I put her down anywhere. I had to carry her and bounce her around for two hours in order to keep her from crying. My arms and back are killing me. Caring for an infant while you’re 18 weeks pregnant is exhausting. And this is precisely why I will be passing out as soon as I click the “Publish” button on this post.

Have a good night, and I hope everyone here on the east coast is surviving the heat wave!

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