Jun 15, 2011  •  In Aerin, Baby, Claire, Home, Parenting, Personal

Second Baby Purchases

Update on the bloody mucous: I’m still spotting and cramping a bit, but it has definitely lessened so we won’t be going to the ER. Needless to say, I didn’t get much sleep last night. And since I am supposed to be taking it easy (and the nanny isn’t available on Wednesdays), J took the day off from work today so that he could watch Claire and tend to my needs. I’m trying my best to rest, but I am having trouble falling asleep and staying asleep. As such, I am momentarily keeping myself busy on the interweb while I wait for my Unisom to kick in.


One bright side to having another girl — especially one so close in age to the first — is that we will not need to purchase many new baby items. I had always joked that if BebeDeux turns out to be a boy, we will dress him in Claire’s old clothes in order to save money, but I knew that in reality, we would have passed down the non-unisex outfits and toys to J’s cousin (who is expecting a girl this September).

Another big bonus is that BebeDeux will be born in the same season as Claire.  🙂

That being said, there are a few big items that we know we will need to purchase…

The first on our list is a new carseat. We will probably get a convertible carseat for Claire to use, and let BebeDeux use Claire’s current infant carseat. According to my go-to book for baby purchases, the Britax Boulevard CS seems to be the best fit for our needs:

Sure, it is one of the more expensive convertible carseats on the market today. But it is also one of the higest-rated for safety, can be used up to 70 lbs, and fairy easy to use (from what I’ve read). We also figure that we can use one of the many 20% off coupons we receive from BRU when making the purchase later this summer.

The next item on our list is a stroller. We debated getting a separate stroller for BebeDeux, or even getting a double stroller for both babies.

Then we remembered that one of the reasons we had decided on our current stroller, the UPPAbaby Vista, is because you can add a Rumble Seat to it, like so:

At first I was a bit hesitant — would Claire be content sitting on the bottom? If anything, I could see her kicking up at the BebeDeux!

I then took a look at the instruction manual and found the following page:

Until BebeDeux gets big enough, you can set it so that the babies face each other! Sold!

The last item on our list is a place for BebeDeux to sleep. We know that for the first couple of months of her life, she will sleep in Claire’s old bassinet, but we have yet to decide what to do once she outgrows it. Claire’s room is cramped enough as it is, so I doubt that we can fit another crib in there. I actually suggested that J and I take the smaller room and let the girls share the large master bedroom, but he vehemently refused.

So we will most likely end up having a crib or a Pack N Play in the living room or our bedroom, but we haven’t decided yet. Either way, we will need to get rid of some furniture and move a bunch of stuff around. Obviously, we hadn’t thought as far ahead to a second child when purchasing our 2-bedroom condo.  🙁

Several people have asked me if we will be having a baby shower for BebeDeux. I am currently on the “no” side of the fence on this one — I had thought that having a baby shower for a second/third/etc child is a faux-pas unless the children are far apart in age, or a different sex, no?

And while I believe that every child should be celebrated, I’m not sure that asking people to fork over more of their hard-earned money for a second time in two years is the best way to go about it.

J thinks that we should at least have a registry just in case anyone wants to buy us a gift (because not everything can be reused, and there are a few items here and there we did not have with Claire that we would like with BebeDeux), but I’m not sure about that either.

Perhaps a sip-and-see after the baby is born? What do you think?

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Jun 14, 2011  •  In Books, Entertainment, Funny, Parenting

How “Go the F**k to Sleep” Just Got a Million Times Better

Remember when I wrote about the book Go the F**k to Sleep?

Well, it just got about a million times better. How so? Well, Audible.com has just released an audio version of the book…

And it’s narrated by none other than…

Samuel L. Jackson!

Seriously. If you could have picked ONE person to read this book, who would you have chosen? I know that I would have gone with Mr. “Snakes on a motherf**king plane” in an instant!  😆

The best part?

You can download it for FREE at http://www.audible.com/pd?asin=B00551W570.

LOVE it.

Via Best Week Ever.


Update:  Boing Boing reports that Werner Herzog will also be doing an audiobook version, to be unveiled at an event to launch the book at the New York Public Library.

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Jun 14, 2011  •  In Aerin, Personal, Pregnancy

Level II Ultrasound (And Some Blood…)

Today J and I trekked down to the hospital for our Level II Ultrasound. We were excited to see BebeDeux again, but more excited to definitively find out the gender of our impending one.

BebeDeux was not cooperative right from the get-go. The ultrasound tech actually told us that just from the way the baby was moving, she would guess that it is a girl — from her experience, boys tend to be a lot more cooperative during their Level II Ultrasounds. (Any of my mommy readers care to confirm her observation?)

We ended up pausing twice — the first time for me to gulp down some cold water, and the second time for me to walk around a bit — just to get BebeDeux in a more favorable position. But the more we tried, the more that BebeDeux would do the opposite of what we wanted.

“This baby…” the ultrasound tech muttered on more than on occasion while shaking her head.

An hour and a half later, we were finally able to get all the images and measurements that the technician needed…including the money shot.

Our OB was correct — BebeDeux is a girl!

And here are the pictures we received…

Can you spot the thumbs up?

Her feet went from being near her head to behind her head.

A 3D image of her face. This isn’t the best shot, but there were
moments when I swear she looked exactly like Claire.

A profile shot. Her nose seems more upturned than Claire’s.

I have NO idea what this is. Can anyone venture a guess?

The money shot. Can you see it? The three dots in the middle?

Legs! (And you can see her head behind her legs!)

My favorite one of the bunch.

The tech was really nice and tried her best to get us some good 3D images of
the baby’s face. No luck. She either kept pressing her face against the placenta…

Or she would try to cover her face with her arms and/or legs.

I thought that all the poor-quality ultrasounds I had gotten — with my previous pregnancy as well as this one — were due to old machines, but apparently that is not the case. The ultrasound tech asked me at one point if I am an avid athlete, or if I do tons of crunches every day. When I replied no (I haven’t done a single crunch since I first got pregnant with Claire), she sounded surprised and said that I have very strong, thick abdominal muscles…and that’s the reason the ultrasound images are so blurry. Good to know! (And perhaps the reason I was able to deliver Claire so easily?)

We returned home in good spirits and began to spread the news that yes, it has been confirmed that BebeDeux is a girl. We had dinner, put Claire to bed and were set to relax for the evening…

…then I made a trip to the bathroom to find (TMI alert!) a huge glob of bloody mucous in my underwear.

I had experienced some bleeding last month, so I wasn’t too concerned at first. But then I remembered that last month’s bleeding was just blood, while this time was bright red blood mixed with mucous. I knew that it couldn’t be from the ultrasound, since everyone was done abdominally and not transvaginally. I also recalled that I had cramping all day yesterday, which I had just chalked up to expanding pains.

I then realized why I was so uneasy — this was exactly what my mucous plug looked like before I went into labor with Claire!

I immediately called our doctor’s messaging service and waited around for the on-call OB to return my phone call. After some precursory questions, the doctor told me to get lots of rest and to come in for a checkup if the bleeding continues through the night.

J has ordered me to bed and I am praying that all is well. I am experiencing some cramps again, but I can’t tell if it is psychosomatic or not.

It’s going to be a long night.

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Jun 14, 2011  •  In Art/Design, Home, Wishlist

Paper Coasters by Terada Naoki

I am loving these paper coasters by Japanese designer Terada Naoki — the delicate profiles, the shadows they cast, and (perhaps the best part) how they can be stacked on top of one another to create more elements.

Unfortunately, they only seem to be available in Japan at the moment.  🙁

Via HolyCool.net.

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Jun 13, 2011  •  In Movies, Random

Dirty Easter Egg in Harry Potter 3

Did you know that in the closing credits of Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban, you can see some mischief being managed on the Marauder’s Map?

So it’s not nearly as bad as some of the Disney’s dirty easter eggs. But one can’t help but wonder what the owners of the footprints are up to in the little corner alcove.

Via OMG Facts.

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Jun 13, 2011  •  In Beauty, Giveaways, Personal, Reviews

BB Creams (And a Giveaway!)

If you are Asian, there’s a very good chance that you already know what BB Creams are — after all, they have been all the rage in Korea, Japan, and China for the past few years. So if you’re familiar with BB Creams, please feel free to skip the next section.  🙂

What is a BB Cream?

BB Cream, or Blemish Balm Cream, first originated in Korea when a famous actress underwent laser skin surgery and used a German formula of concealer+regenerative/protective cream during her recovery…and continued to use it well after her skin had healed because she liked it so much.

Soon, other celebrities began to use it too, and the word spread to the rest of the population as various cosmetic companies adapted the concept and started to produce their own formulas.

The producers of BB Cream claim that it is suitable for all skin types and advertise that a single tube of BB Cream can replace moisturizer, sunscreen, and foundation from your daily beauty routine.

Personally, I like to tell people that BB Cream is a happy medium between a foundation and a tinted moisturizer, with added skin-enhancing benefits.

And since there are sooooo many different types of BB Creams available on the market these days — all with different textures, finishes, and skin-protecting/healing properties — I’m sure that you can find one to fit your needs once you’ve done some research.


Just some of the BB Creams offered by MISSHA, a popular Korean cosmetics company

 

The only downside to BB Creams? Since all the major manufacturers are East Asian, there is usually only one or two shade available for each line. Sure, as the product oxidizes and settles into your skin it tends to blend in, but you can’t deny that it would not work well with very fair or darker-skinned women.

(BUT, as the rest of the world is finally starting to catch on to the BB Cream trend — with major retailers such as Sephora even carrying a couple of BB Creams now — I can only assume that the cosmetic companies will begin to add more shades to their lineup. In the meantime, if you would like to find out how to add some additional color to your BB Cream, read what my friend Irene had to say over at Korean Beacon.)

For more information on BB Creams, you can check out Squidoo’s “What is BB Cream and why are Asian women crazy about it?” This thread from Soompi also has tons of information on BB Creams, as well as links to reviews from real users. And if you Google “BB Cream” or do a search on YouTube, you can also find tons of reviews, pictures, and videos of the various BB Creams on the market.

My Experience with BB Creams

Remember how I gotten horrible acne when I was pregnant with Claire? Well, when my skin did not immediately clear up after birth (like all pregnancy symptoms, it took a few weeks for my body to recover), my mother got me a tube of BB Cream from our local Korean market, telling me that she had heard great things about BB Creams and that some can help clear up acne.

I had heard about BB Cream before, but I was comfortable with my foundation and so hadn’t thought to give it a try. But once I did, I was hooked.

Like mentioned above, BB Creams provide the user with coverage (some more than others), skincare benefits, and SPF…all with the convenience of a tinted moisturizer.

Once my first tube ran out, I set out to get another, but discovered that the one that my mother had gotten me had since been discontinued.  🙁  I went to the good ol’ interweb to find another BB Cream, but found myself utterly overwhelmed as there were sooooo many different brands, lines, and labels.

I have tried four different BB Creams (all from different companies) since then, and here are my thoughts on them…

MISSHA M Perfect Cover BB Cream

In a nutshell: SPF 42; medium, buildable coverage; brightening and anti-wrinkle properties

Along with Hanskin, MISSHA is one of the top manufacturers of BB Cream in Korea. This particular BB Cream is one of the most popular from the MISSHA brand, and that is what drew me in.

Perhaps the best part about this BB Cream is that it comes in two shades: No. 21 Bright Beige, and No. 23 Natural Beige (the higher number being the darker color). I got the lighter shade because my skin tends to be naturally pale, and the color was perfect on me. Both are available for about $17 on Amazon.

I liked this BB Cream, but I didn’t love it. I know that it is one of the most popular BB Creams for a reason — because most people really seem to LOVE it — but as someone whose T-zone becomes an oil field by the end of the day (especially in the summer), I would have preferred a bit more oil control.

Lioele Beyond Solution BB Cream

In a nutshell: medium, buildable coverage; natural ingredients such as vegetable collagen to help smooth the skin

Another very popular BB Cream that is targeted to the younger crowd who are looking for a healthy glow with a dewy finish.

Initially, I liked this one a bit better than the MISSHA M Perfect Cover…but I have to say that in my case, the coverage seemed to disappear after about the 5th hour of wear. This BB Cream also does not have an SPF which is a big “con” in my book.

Still, it is another favorite in Asia and you can purchase it for $18 through Amazon.

SKIN79 Super+ Beblesh Balm BB Cream (Pink Label)

In a nutshell: SPF 25; medium coverage; brightening and anti-wrinkle properties

This BB Cream is very popular among the younger crowd for its brightening, dewy finish. The texture is light and refreshing, and comes in a pretty pump packaging as you can see in the picture.

Since I was on the lookout for good oil control, I was not too interested in this one, but my SIL got it for me from Hong Kong and I was grateful for the gift. This BB Cream really does seem to improve your skin’s texture, so if it weren’t for my super-oily T-zone it would have been perfect for me.

This BB cream is also the least expensive of the ones I’ve tried: you can get it for less than $15 on Amazon.

Dr. Jart+ Silver Label Rejuvenating Blemish Base BB Cream

In a nutshell: SPF 35; oil control; brightening and tightening properties

This BB Cream is the priciest of the bunch at $29, but it is by far my favorite. Why? It has fantastic oil control on top of the anti-aging and brightening effects…but it doesn’t dry my skin out.

The texture is a bit thicker than the others, but it’s no thicker than a regular foundation. The smell is a teeny bit medicine-y (while the others were more floral and makeup-like), but it’s not offensive — just different.

As with all BB Creams, what may work best for one person will not always work for another, so you have to do the research and experiment to find the one that’s right for you. I’m not sure if I got lucky or not by finding the best BB Cream for me on the fourth try.

Now, for the giveaway…

Since I like BB Creams so much, I have decided to give one away to one lucky reader!

The best part? The winner gets to choose from the four I’ve reviewed in this post, in addition to two other top BB Creams. This means that you have the chance to win one brand new tube of BB Cream from the following choices:

(Note: there are two SKIN79 BB Creams on the list, with the Gold Label specifically formulated with anti-aging benefits.)

You can enter the giveaway in three different ways:

  1. Leave a comment to this post, telling me which BB Cream you would choose if you won
  2. Tweet (and leave a comment here saying you did so) the following:
    I just entered to win a [enter the name of BB Cream you’d like here] at http://bit.ly/kiuqII via @geekinheels and you can too!
  3. “Like” this post using the Facebook “Like” button at the bottom (and leave a comment here saying you did so)

Each method will grant you one separate entry, so you can increase your chances of winning by using all three methods of entry.

Please leave a valid email address (which will not be published or shared) when filling out the comment form so that I can contact you if you win.

The giveaway will end this Friday, June 17th, 2011 at 12:00pm EST. The winner will be chosen by a random number generator and be notified via email. The giveaway is valid only for U.S. residents.

Thanks for reading, and good luck!

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Jun 12, 2011  •  In Art/Design, Funny, Web

Every Day Posters Every Day

We interrupt your regularly scheduled program to bring you your Tumblr Site of the Day…

Every Day Posters Every Day aims to bring you every day activities or occurrences, no matter how trivial or mundane, and celebrate them in the form of posters. Readers are encouraged to submit their own should they feel that their favorite chore has not been appropriately represented.

Here are my favorites from the first few pages:

Via Flavorwire.

P.S. — The Dallas Mavericks have won the 2011 NBA Finals! Major kudos on a great win! (Although a part of me kinda wanted Miami to win tonight just so there would be a Game 7.   😛 )

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Jun 12, 2011  •  In Aerin, Personal, Pregnancy

19 Weeks

I feel bad that I haven’t been writing about BebeDeux and this pregnancy as much as I did with Claire. But with the two babies so close in age, I haven’t forgotten much about my pregnancy with Claire, and aside from a few minor differences, this pregnancy is very similar.

I do not consider this pregnancy any less special than the one with Claire; I just feel redundant writing the same thing over again. 🙁

That being said, I CAN’T BELIEVE I’M ALMOST HALFWAY THROUGH. Holy crap. Where did the time go? Here are the few differences that I have noticed:

  • No round ligament pains with this pregnancy! If you can remember, my round ligament pains with Claire were more painful than labor pains. Not surprisingly, this is one welcome change.
  • A bit more nausea. Luckily, my morning sickness is literal morning sickness — I am almost always only nauseous in the morning and regularly puke while brushing my teeth. (And a few times while walking Comang, when his poop was extra nasty/smelly and I couldn’t help but hurl. Sorry, neighbors whose sidewalks I have thrown up on.)
  • No acne. Yay!
  • Pregnancy migraines. My OB has written me a prescription for Fioricet (a combination of butalbital, acetaminophen, and caffeine) and it has helped somewhat.
  • Worse insomnia than I had with Claire. And sleeplessness is a major trigger for migraines. And migraines definitely don’t help with the insomnia. It’s a vicious cycle.

And, as reported by most women, your tummy certainly gets bigger a lot faster with subsequent pregnancies. Here are my 19 week belly shots — the one on the left is from a year ago when I was pregnant with Claire, and the one on the right was taken today.

I plan on continuing to take weekly belly shots, but I will not post them regularly. Rather, I will share them in bunches as major pregnancy milestones occur.

Oh, one last thing. J was able to start feeling BebeDeux’s movements from the outside earlier this week, at 18 weeks. 🙂  He was not able to feel Claire until 21 weeks.

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Jun 11, 2011  •  In Career, Education, Parenting, Personal, Relationships

Peaked Too Early

Lately I have been plagued with a nagging uncertainty that makes me wonder if I had peaked too early in life.

Allow me to explain.

Before the age of 20, I was a Little Miss Overachiever: straight ‘A’s in school, tons of extracurricular activities, numerous awards, distinctions, and merits. My accomplishments included the following:

Not only did I qualify for the regional orchestra made up of 50 high schools in the lower NY area, I wrangled solo performances.

I was accepted to the über-prestigious Cooper Union School of Art’s Saturday Program (which has since divided into the Saturday Program and the Outreach Program) which allowed me to take art classes — for free — every Saturday for an entire summer from some of the nation’s most respected instructors in visual arts. I was one of the 40 students chosen out of more than 350 who applied…and I was one of the two high school sophomores (of the mostly juniors and seniors) who made the cut.

I held an internship — a paid internship — at one of the most famous and most respected art museums in the country: The Metropolitan Museum of Art.

I did not think too highly of these honors at the time, because all I had done is to do the work, apply, and get in. Only do I realize now that these were BIG FRIGGIN’ DEALS. Even my own sister, who is currently a PhD candidate in Art History, has recently asked me, “How in the world did you manage to land that Met internship?”

Post-college, I’ve only held two long-term jobs. While they were fairly respectable and paid well, they were nothing to brag about.

I am now a SAHM with an 8-month-old daughter and another kid on the way. I have not contributed to the household income for the past couple of years, and my life is, frankly, not very exciting.

Did I “peak” too early?

image
I’m writing this on my phone while in the car so I don’t have any
relevent pictures for this post. You’ll have to make do with this
old picture of Claire’s first bath.

When I brought up these concerns with J, he assured me that while the accomplishments of my youth are great to be sure, they are worldy accomplishments, or ones that may seem to matter most to society. Meanwhile, having children and raising them, being a good mother and a wife and a daughter — that is what is more important to him and to our family, and that they far outweigh whatever I may have done in the past.

I know that many mothers consider their children to be their greatest accomplishments, but I do not feel this way. I consider nabbing my husband to be my #1 achievement. 🙂

Do you ever have fears that you may have peaked too early? How do you deal with the doubts?

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Jun 10, 2011  •  In Art/Design, Books, Cute, Star Wars

The Little Sith

An mashup of Star Wars and Antoine de Saint-Exupéry’s The Little Prince by illustrator Fabian Gonzales. I personally love the idea of Vader caring for the Death Star and its lone rose.

Via Neatorma.

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