This month's Elle magazine has an interesting article titled "The Smart Girl's Taboo: Wanting to be a Kept Woman." In it, the writer contemplates the success of the E! television show The Girls Next Door and even spends some time with Hef's three main ladies. She then asks why so many women are attracted to the show - can it be that deep down inside, even successful, independent women dream of being a kept woman? I know many single or unmarried women who are well-educated, have successful careers, and live very comfortable lives. However, more than a few have told me directly: "I only went into this field to meet successful (rich) men." or, "I'm proud of what I've done and I'm happy with my life. But I want to meet someone...