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How I Met Him

I have been married for a a month and a half now, and realized I've never written about how I met my husband. J and I attended the same university. He was quite the ladies' man in his college years, so he had already established a reputation by the time I entered school. In fact, I had heard about him before ever meeting him in person. Our first time meeting face to face was at a party during my freshmen year (he was a senior). He tried to hit on me, and I ran away. Of course, he swears he doesn't recall this incident at all. Fast forward a few years. I had taken a couple of years off and just returned to school....

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My Wedding, In Retrospect

I first starting blogging in 2001 and have had several blogs since then. (Although Geek in Heels is only 3 months old I've transferred some of my favorite posts from those blogs to the archives.) When I got engaged I naturally started a wedding planning blog and was delighted to be accepted as a blogger on one of the largest and best-known wedding blogs in the U.S. - Weddingbee. Due to its immense popularity, I sometimes get recognized on the streets. Once in a while, I meet new people and they exclaim, "I know you - you're on Weddingbee!" Thus, I think it would be safe to say that my internet identity is mostly tied in with my wedding, which occurred 1.5...

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5 Pieces of Advice for Recent Graduates, Part 5

Part 1: The world doesn't owe you anything. Part 2: It's never too late. Part 3: Make the best of it. Part 4: Be ballsy. 5. Sometimes, it really is pure luck. When I first started job-hunting, I didn't have much going for me. My grades weren't good, I had little experience, and I had no clue what I wanted to do for a living. I sent out my resume to hundreds of companies and never heard a peep. Soon, the bank of mom and dad threatened to cut me off. "Get a job or move back home." I decided to try temping while still job-hunting, just so I can prove to the parents units that I wasn't lying on the couch watching TV all day. I contacted a temp agency, and...

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5 Pieces of Advice for Recent Graduates, Part 4

Part 1: The world doesn't owe you anything. Part 2: It's never too late. Part 3: Make the best of it. 4. Be ballsy. I have mentioned before that I am a textbook ISFP. I have terrible stagefright and I shy away from being the center of attention. I'm great at giving others a lending hand and making suggestions, but I'm horrible when it comes to helping myself or taking my own advice. In short, I'm a terrible at selling and promoting myself. Needless to say, I hate job interviews. Now I like to think of myself as a fairly polite person with decent manners and a pleasant (albeit somewhat reserved) personality. However, that doesn't take you very far in the cutthroat world of business. I actually never interviewed for my first job -...

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5 Pieces of Advice for Recent Graduates, Part 3

Part 1: The world doesn't owe you anything. Part 2: It's never too late. 3. Make the best of it. I hated my first job. In hindsight, it wasn't a total waste. I gained valuable experience, learned the importance of office politics, and the salary wasn't bad at all for an entry-level position. However, I couldn't ignore the fact that I was miserable. I hated the numbers-driven strategy and the mad scramble at the end of every fiscal quarter to meet the quota. I hated the work I did, which was providing administrative and strategic support for my sales group. I knew I was capable of more. During my one-year tenure at this company, I befriended a man in the marketing department. To be more specific, he was a designer within the marketing department....

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