May 1, 2013  •  In Personal, Wedding

Store, Sell, or Repurpose?

I was digging through the closet the other day when I came across an item I haven’t seen in years: a royal blue box with the words STUART WEITZMAN embossed across the top, housing the shoes I wore on my wedding day 5 years ago.

stuart_weitzman_dubonnet

At $295, the Stuart Weitzman Dubonnet is the most expensive pair of shoes I own. (I may love heels but most of my shoes were under $100.) I only wore them a handful of times: during wedding dress fittings, practices for our first dance, and — duh — on the wedding day itself.

I am so glad I decided to splurge on these shoes, because they’re probably the most comfortable pair of high heels I own. Even with a 4½” heel, I was able to start my day at 8am, stand around, make my way through Central Park, walk down the aisle and be part of a 30-minute wedding ceremony, greet guests, and dance my tooshie off until 10pm without my feet ever being in pain.

Needless to say, these shoes are no longer in pristine condition. But they are still certainly wearable and hold with them many fond memories.

DSC00568 Continue reading »

You may also like:

Apr 30, 2013  •  In Entertainment, Infographics, Movies

The Nicholas Cage Movie Matrix

J calls Nic Cage “the king of B movies,” and I’m sure many would agree.

I confess I quite enjoyed some of his prior action flicks like The Rock (cue Sean Connery saying “Welcome to The Rock”), Con Air (“Put the bunny back in the box!”), and Face/Off (“I want to take his face…off.”).

I really liked both National Treasure movies too.  😳  And Family Man? A severely underrated film.

Then there’s Adaptation, which I consider Charlie Kaufman’s greatest (and that’s saying a lot because all his movies are effing brilliant), and Kick-Ass, which blew me away.

As such, I can’t quite agree with ALL the placements on the matrix below, but I think it did a pretty good job. What do you think?

nicholas_cage_movie_matrix

I also feel the need to add that Ghost Rider should be off in a corner so right and to the bottom that it might as well have its own graphYes, it was THAT BAD and I will never forgive my husband for making me sit through it not once, not twice, but THREE times.  👿

Via Reddit.

You may also like:

Apr 25, 2013  •  In Asian, Beauty, Korean

“Samsung Robots” [Miss Korea 2013 Contestants All Look the Same]

Many of us are aware that South Korea has the highest highest rate of cosmetic surgery per capita (according to a 2012 report by the Economist).

But just how prevalent is plastic surgery in Korea?

And, perhaps more relevant to this discussion, just how homogenous is the standard of beauty in Korea?

These questions, along with the argument over the “westernization” of ideal beauty in Korea — and, as a result, the cosmetic surgery  procedures that seek these features — were hotly debated when Redditor ShenTheWise posted photos of the 2013 Miss Korea contestants for the world to scrutinize. The photos quickly went viral, and it’s easy to see why. Take a look for yourself:

miss_korea_2013_plastic_surgery

The OP adds these comments along with the pictures:

1) You arent racist. Those women in fact do look unnervingly similar and yes, Koreans think so too. This is because they all get the exact same plastic surgeries and the surgeons follow the same formulas for noses and eyes and everything else theyve had done (fillers, cheek and forehead implants, eye surgery, nose surgery, jaw reduction, breast job, calf muscle job, fat grafting etc). Every single one of them has had nose and eye surgery. Those faces costed those girls thousands. Also dont underestimate makeup, theyve got it caked on in a similar style.

2). Those are called the Korean plastic face look. In certain areas of Seoul, you would think all the women are sisters because they look so similar due to same surgeries.
Koreans cant tell them apart ether. Theyre jokingly referred to as “Samsung Robots”

3). Most korean women dont look like those women. Not anywhere near actually. Most dont have the money to fund their body dysmorphia. Some actually have self esteem. Without the plastic surgery, korean women are very diverse looking and easily can be told apart. The surgery takes away their individuality and uniqueness and its sad. Most are beautiful without it but telling them that their korean ethnic features are infact lovely is as effective as screaming at a brick wall. They wont believe you because theyve been brainwashed to think westernization of their features is superior, i dont think they want to look white, but a mix of white and asian and definitely less Korean.

4). Its weird to see the real plastic ones with kids. The kids look adopted. I always wonder how they explain to their kids later on why they look so different, “Dont worry when youre old enough we will have a surgeon fix the ugly parts just like mommy did!”. And yes many korean men DO ask for old pics before getting serious about a woman.

I have stated in the past that I have nothing against plastic surgery. My bone of contention with this story is that the Korean society — a highly competitive environment that values conformity — puts pressure on its women to look the same.

And if you don’t conform to this standard? Well, tough luck. Or, just get surgery!

I’m reminded of the time my mother informed me I have the type of face that is considered beautiful by the older Korean generation, but not the younger current.

I know that the issue isn’t just isolated to Korea; who can forget the story of the Chinese man who sued his wife for hiding her surgeries from him — thereby giving birth to a baby he found to be “horrifically ugly” — AND WON!

plastic_surgery_meme
Not the family in question, but a very popular photo among Asians.

Via Absolutely Fobulous.


ETA, ~12 hours after publishing original post:

I have just learned via KoreAm that the photos are NOT of Miss Korea 2013 contestants, but of the Miss Korea Daegu contest. (Daegu is a city in southern Korea, and coincidentally where I was born and lived for the first 7.5 years of my life.)

The article raised a good point, which I deserves mention on this blog:

While it’s startling to see how similar the contestants look and perhaps it’s easy to get get caught up in online rants about how Korea is too materialistic and shallow and are besmirching the good name of beauty pageants everywhere, it makes more sense that a handful of contestants in a regional contest will look similar due to going to the same doctor rather than Korean plastic surgeons across the country working with a universal manual on current beauty standards.

What do you think? Does this clarification make the story any more acceptable/tolerable?

You may also like:

Apr 24, 2013  •  In Funny, Movies

The Other Rules of Fight Club

Everyone knows the first rule of Fight Club. What they don’t know is that there actually exist 20 additional rules…which have just been revealed for the first time by Mandatory. Enjoy!

fight_club_other_rules_1

fight_club_other_rules_2

fight_club_other_rules_3

fight_club_other_rules_4 Continue reading »

You may also like:

Apr 23, 2013  •  In Entertainment, Funny, Geek, Web

If Web Browsers Were Celebrities

My favorite is Keanu’s “Requires No Browser.” How about you?

web_browsers_celebrities

Via Geeks are Sexy.

You may also like:

Apr 22, 2013  •  In Aerin, Claire, Personal

Mini Pic Dump, April 2013

20130413_152152
Enjoying the warmer weather and being silly.

DSC00477
After each bath, I take Aerin out and get her dried and dressed first since Claire is
better at keeping herself busy. I usually return to find something like this.

Continue reading »

You may also like:

Apr 20, 2013  •  In Beauty, Marketing/Advertising, Personal

It’s All About Perception [Real Beauty]

There’s a good chance you’ve already seen Dove’s viral video campaign “Dove Real Beauty Sketches,” but I figure it’s worth a mention on this blog because I love the message behind it:

Women are their own worst beauty critics. Only 4% of women around the world consider themselves beautiful. At Dove, we are committed to creating a world where beauty is a source of confidence, not anxiety. So, we decided to conduct a compelling social experiment that explores how women view their own beauty in contrast to what others see.

In the experiment, FBI-trained forensics artist Gil Zamora is hired to interview and draw seven different women. He produces two sketches of each woman — the first sketch based on the woman’s personal description of herself, and the second based on a description provided by a stranger the woman had just met.

When the two sketches are put side-by-side, the results are uniform: the woman describes herself as plainer than she is, heavier than she is, less attractive than she is. The second sketch is always more beautiful and more accurate.

dove_beauty_sketchs_shelly

dove_beauty_sketchs_florence

dove_beauty_sketchs_jenise

dove_beauty_sketchs_kela

dove_beauty_sketchs_lani

dove_beauty_sketchs_melinda

dove_beauty_sketchs_maria

And here is the video, just in case you haven’t watched it yet (click here for a shorter, 3-minute version):

J constantly tells me that he wishes I could see myself the way he sees me. And I always brush him off — “You have to say stuff like that because you’re my husband.” Or, “You’re biased because you love me.”

(His usual response to this is, “I’m a very shallow person. I wouldn’t have married you unless I thought you were hot.”  🙄 )

I’m not entirely sure how accurate/inaccurate my perception of myself is, but I do know that the vast majority of my girlfriends consider themselves to be significantly less attractive than I believe them to be. I also know that if this experiment were conducted on them, they would get similar results as the women in the Dove campaign.

How about you? Do you believe you’d also describe yourself as being less attractive than you really are?

On a less serious note, a parody of the “Real Beauty Sketches” campaign was produced just a few days after the original went viral. The brilliant spoof from New Feelings Time Comedy wonders what would happen if you tried the same experiment on men:

And as you can see from the screenshot below, the results are nothing short of hilarious.  :mrgreen:

dove_beauty_sketchs_parody

Via Adweek.

You may also like:

Apr 18, 2013  •  In Personal

A Queasy Fifth Anniversary

This past weekend, Aerin caught the stomach flu.

…And just as she was starting to get better, Claire got sick too.

Then me. Then J.

I can’t remember ever being covered in this much puke and poop.

To make matters worse, our washer broke down on Day 2 of the great epidemic.

fb_status

Luckily, there is a coin-operated laundromat just a few blocks away. But any idiot can tell you that making multiple trips to a public venue with vomit-and-diarrhea-covered clothes and blankets — when you have 2 clingy, crying kids in the house, no less — is no picnic.

Needless to say, I’m very tired.

Today is J and my 5-year wedding anniversary. My mother says that this must be our kids’ anniversary present to us. 🙄 We had originally been planning to go out for a romantic dinner tonight, but instead, the girls and I are still recovering while J lies in bed with a fever.

wedding_ceremony

Happy anniversary. Love you lots.

You may also like:

Apr 12, 2013  •  In Art/Design, Entertainment, Movies, Shopping

Disney Princess Inspired Rings

Heck Yeah Disney Merch! recently designed a collection of rings inspired by Disney princesses using the “design your own jewelry” feature in Gemvara, an online jewelry store. Each piece seeks to evoke the signature colors and spirits of the corresponding princess — can you recognize which is which?

(The answers are in white text under each picture. To see them, simply highlight the area.)

disney_inspired_rings_cinderella
Cinderella

disney_inspired_rings_rapunzel
Rapunzel

Continue reading »

You may also like:

Apr 10, 2013  •  In Entertainment, Movies

How “The Walking Dead” Is Like “Toy Story”

Redditor JimmyLegs50 posted these series of images — titled “Zombie Story” — 2 weeks ago, just before the season 3 finale of The Walking Dead. What do you think? Do you agree that the plots are eerily similar?

toy_story_walking_dead_1

toy_story_walking_dead_2 Continue reading »

You may also like: